I went through the flist and trimmed it down considerably today, mostly removing journals that have never been posted to or that were created for NaNo purposes. I also cut a few people who have been on the flist for a year now, and who I have
never communicated with. I'm sorry, but I think it's clear that there's a mutual disconnect. Also from now on, I'm scrapping my old system of filtering entries, because the system has gotten far too confusing and I can't remember who is in what friends group. So I'll go the lazy route and ditch filters altogether. :-D Icons and things of that nature will remain public; everything else will go friends-only.
To everyone who was spared my RL grumbling sessions, you'll now be plagued. Please feel free to remove me from your flist. I'll understand. :-P